Making Connections

You don’t need a professional medium all the time to make connections with your loved ones who are on the other side of life. You can get messages from them at just about any time AND they can hear you any time you choose to speak with them. To some degree it is a matter of being able to accept their messages, looking for them and realizing that it isn’t just “some crazy phenomenon” that you explain away

Here is a good example of how they communicate. Recently I went to a State park here in Tennessee near my home, about 40 minutes away from where I live. I pulled my vehicle up to the parking spot on the right. When I looked up I noticed the numbers and letters on the plate in front of my vehicle. There was a 9 on one section and a 63 on the other, then with the numbers there was also the letters HN. I thought to my guys you are so good, nice sign. It wasn’t until I relaxed and walked through the park and its scenery that I realized it wasn’t my “guyz” but my father. He passed at 63 is initials were HN, the number 9 has a significant meaning for me. A nice way for him to say “ hello yes, I am thinking of you too!”

So why the license plate and not talk to me directly because I am a medium? Well energy wise it is easier. They lower their energy to “talk” to me and I raise mine to “talk” to them. It takes a bit out of both of us. It sometimes is difficult for me to concentrate well on things like driving or even making dinner after a reading because my energy I still a bit too high. So Dad, may have been taking it into consideration. Also my Dad had a great sense of humor, so he may have been using that to get my attention. For whatever reason, Thanks Dad!

They can get our attention with songs, headlines on a magazine, dreams, moving our keys, purses, pens or glasses for a short time, making electrical things go “wonkey” - that’s a technical term by the way. They can have us smell their cigars, garden roses, favorite dish, perfume or aftershave. They can sometimes be seen out of the corner of our eye.

There is one thing not to expect, that is unless you are in a show production, don’t expect them to “go Hollywood” on you. It isn’t like the TV and movies portray. It is much different. Thank GOD! They won’t normally show up in front of you like in a movie, they really don’t want you to join them that badly or to soil yourself, either one could happen.

When we are grieving it is very difficult for them to get through. One lady I heard from a while back asked me how long until her loved one could communicate with her? It hadn’t been a week at that point since the girl had passed. I told her to wait until her grieving was further along before she tried a reading or communication of any form. You have to take time for you if you are still grieving to get messages is just too much most of the time. Granted there are special cases, but most often they will wait for you to be OK

My father visited me in a dream shortly after he passed those many years ago. He knew then I could hear him and everything at that point I guess, however, I dismissed the dream for several reasons and not until years later, did I realized the visit by its signs.

You have to be ready for the communication and can set guidelines for them on how you need them to communicate so that you KNOW it’s them. Don’t tell them exactly how, but set up guidelines like dreams are OK, keys on week day before work is a NO, if it is you with something please do it again in such a way I know it is you.

Look for birthdays or important dates on things, clocks, license plates, or anything that displays numbers. Don’t be surprised if you hear a special song at some point or see a special photo on TV that reminds you of them or your memories with them.

There are two great books on my “Book List” page with ways to help yourself receive your own messages. One book is by Suzane Northrop, well known and gifted medium “A Medium’s Cookbook: Recipes for the Soul.” The other book is by John Holland also a well known and gifted medium and it is “Psychic Navigator.”